So, I am back with another love post, since you all loved the last one I wrote about our love story! I am not used to talking about my privet life but I can share some tips for all the couples out there if you can call them tips or life lessons. Life living together. That could be a title of a movie lol! Anyway, in case I haven’t mentioned yet I am living together with my boyfriend. We have been living together for the past 4 years! That’s a long time. The best advice I can give is that you both have to care about each other. All those little things matter. Leave aside your ego and care about your significant other, or else you have lost the game.
In overall I have to say that it can be hard living with another person, especially when you have to balance everything. Your job, your social life, your blog (in my case), your home, your ‘me’ time. Most of the times I get really confused and frustrated because I am trying to balance everything and I feel like is not enough. Things get worse when your boyfriend/fiance/husband etc is a sailor and half the year is gone. It’s like having a long distance relationship. You are trying to work things when he is not away, and when you both have finally found your rhythm, boom he is gone! And you then you need to start all over again that long distance relationship.
Life Living Together * Advice
So, if you truly care about each other, try to communicate and talk things out when something is wrong, rather than fight.
Never but never sleep on separate beds. No matter how angry you are.
Mind your language and be careful of what you say when you are angry. We say things that we don’t really mean and regret. Just don’t.
Share your household chores. No seriously! Because of the fact that I am a woman, it doesn’t mean that I am gonna do everything. You boys need to change your mindset. There are a few things that boys can handle too, like taking out the trash or clean the table etc.
Do things together: Decorate your space, play games, watch movies etc.
Enjoy your alone time. When you are living 24/7 with someone else, you need time to spend with yourself too. It’s important. You should both value each other ‘me time’.
Hopefully, you found my advice helpful! Can anyone relate here? I would love to hear your thoughts!
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